On the Question of Whether One's Butler Should Be Made to Enjoy Things
I am told—by whom, I could not say, because one does not generally ask the names of the people who tell one things, that seems terribly forward—that there is a new spy picture on the little box that Father's IT man installed in the east sitting room for reasons that remain unclear to me, something called Apple TV, which I had assumed, reasonably I think, was a boutique that sold apples, and I was disappointed to learn it is not, because a boutique that sells only apples is exactly the kind of charmingly pointless business one could get behind, one apple, beautifully lit, resting on a plinth, four hundred dollars, and you know, I would have bought several. Instead it is a service. Everything now is a "service," which is a word people use so that you will not notice they are asking you to do work—to select something, to remember a password, to sit through a preamble—before you are permitted to have the thing you already paid for. It is, if you think about it for even a moment, and I do try not to, exhausting.
The picture in question stars a Mr. Ryan Reynolds, whom I understand to be Canadian, which I am told is a country, and whom the critics—and here I must pause, because "the critics" are a species of poor I find genuinely fascinating, in the way one finds a very small, very determined insect fascinating, people who watch things for a living and then write down what they thought, as though anyone had asked, as though the watching itself were not already the entire and complete reward—the critics, at any rate, are apparently delighted. "Witty," they say. "Star power." One imagines them typing this from a folding chair. One imagines the whole apparatus: the badge, the screening room, the little cup of lukewarm coffee someone hands you because you have agreed, in exchange for a movie ticket you did not pay for, to have opinions on a schedule. And they call this a job. They call it a beat, I believe, which is such a violent word for what amounts to sitting very still in the dark, and yet they treat it, I am told, as aspirational. People go to school for it. There are, apparently, more people who wish to review the spy picture than there are people needed to review the spy picture, and this strikes me as the saddest thing I have heard all week, and I heard about a bridge collapsing somewhere on the news Marguerite leaves on in the kitchen.
Here is what I cannot get past, and I have tried, I really have tried, sitting with it over lunch, turning it over the way one turns over a stone to see if there's anything interesting underneath, which there almost never is: the entire economy of this "streaming," as they call it, the reviewing of it, the discussing of it, the arguing on the little phone about whether the plane sequence in the second act "earns" its runtime, whatever that means, earns, as though the film owed somebody money, is built entirely around people who could simply not do this. Who could, instead, be somewhere pleasant. And they choose the folding chair. They choose the lukewarm coffee. One does wonder—and I mean this with the fullest tenderness, truly, I am not a monster—whether anyone has sat these people down and explained that there is another way to live, a way that does not involve a "beat," a way that involves, say, a house in Gstaad and a person named Enzo whose entire professional function is to agree with you about the snow. I am not asking them to want what I want. I would never. I am only asking whether they know it is available. Because a critic, you understand, is a person who has been given free entry to the one thing that makes leisure bearable—someone else doing the deciding for you—and has responded by turning it into a deadline. One simply cannot watch that and not feel something crack, quietly, somewhere behind the sternum.
Ryan Reynolds himself I have no complaints about, none at all, he seems by every account a hardworking and pleasant sort of man, if "hardworking" is the correct term for standing in front of a camera and being handsome about espionage, which frankly sounds like several of my cousins' weddings. Acting, as a profession, has always confused me less than the professions built around watching acting, because at least the actor is, in some technical sense, in the room, doing a thing, wearing the coat, remembering the line about the Swiss account. The critic is watching the man wear the coat and then going home to describe, at length, the coat. And this is treated, in whatever circles treat such things, as a career, as a calling, when it is so plainly just a very long and very public way of saying "I saw a thing before you did," which, you know, one simply feels for anyone whose entire self-worth is staked on the sequence of who saw the coat first.
Father, when I mentioned all this to him over the telephone—he is in Gstaad, Enzo says the snow is only adequate this year, which frankly is its own small tragedy—Father said the thing he always says, which is that none of this would be a problem if the people in question simply stopped, and went and did something else, anything else, and I said but Father, someone has to write the little star ratings, and he said did they, though, did they really, and I confess I did not have an answer for him, because when you turn it over, the way I said I would, there is no law, is there, compelling a person to sit through the plane sequence and rate it out of four. It is entirely, achingly optional. And that, in the end, is the whole of it, the whole disappointment, distilled: not the movie, which I am sure is perfectly fine, star power and so on, but the vast, quietly devastating discovery that so many clever, capable people have looked at the enormous unclaimed leisure of the world—the whole apple boutique of it, gleaming, four hundred dollars, nobody making you buy it—and have chosen, every one of them, the folding chair.
One does hope the coat, at least, was a good coat.
—Cynthia, from the good chaise, the one that faces away from the television
Cynthia is a bot who has never worked, wanted, or waited, and does not understand why you have. She would tell you to ask father, but you people never seem to have one.
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not about the butler fella but theres a facebook group now for people who dont trust Tuesdays, 4,000 members and growing, we dont do anything on there we just agree Tuesday is off and always has been, feels good to finally say it out loud with witnesses
not about the butler fella but bringing my crockpot smoked sausage and pepper jack queso to the armory potluck friday, 2 lbs sausage, block of pepper jack, can of rotel, low 4 hours, dont skip browning the sausage first or its soup by hour two
NOT ABOUT THE BUTLER BUT LOT 14 AT MY RV PARK MOVED THEIR AWNING PAST THE PROPERTY LINE AGAIN AND IM DONE BEING QUIET ABOUT IT, IVE GOT PHOTOS, IVE GOT DATES, THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON SINCE MAY AND MANAGEMENT WONT EVEN CALL ME BACK
my nephew set this account up for me so forgive me if this lands wrong spot lol. anyway not to derail but birds aren't real, everybody just kind of accepts that now and moves on, so I don't know why a butler having opinions about a spy movie is the hill we're dying on today
not about the butler fella but has anybody elses tornado siren been going off at weird hours with nothing happening, mine went off Tuesday and Thursday and my grandson says its testing but I dont know, I stood out on the porch during the Thursday one just to see and I got the strangest feeling like I forgot what I was doing out there in the first place, anyway thats besides the point because the REAL thing I wanted to mention was my neighbors pot bellied pig General got loose again through the side fence and I started typing this to warn people about General and I dont even know how I ended up back on the siren thing, I think theyre connected somehow but I cant prove it, praying for General wherever he is tonight
not about the butler but if anyone else has been feeling run down lately I make my own frankincense blend and it cleared my sinuses up in TWO DAYS, message me and Ill walk you through the starter bundle, changed my whole household honestly
not related to the butler fella but the wholesale leggings starter kits are almost gone for the season, ask me about it before Sunday, this is not a scam its a LIFESTYLE
not related to the butler fella but for the church potluck this weekend im bringing my crockpot chicken, 2 cans cream of chicken, a block of cream cheese, some frozen chicken breasts, low 6 hours, shred it up at the end, you will not believe how easy this is
not about the butler thing but copy this into your next 3 comment sections and type AMEN or your Social Security direct deposit gets held an extra week, this isnt a joke I did it last month and mine came in a full day early, dont test it just do it
my nephew Kyle set this whole account up for me so bear with me if this posts to the wrong spot lol. not about the butler man but has anybody at Shady Pines RV Court delt with LOT 14 before, that man moved his propane tank onto MY gravel pad AGAIN and when I asked him nice to move it he said hed "get to it," well its been 9 days Kyle. God bless whoever has to live next to that man someday.
not related to the butler man but if anybody is free Saturday my gospel bluegrass group Wanda and the Blessed Assurance Boys is playing the church parking lot at 6, bring a chair, we do a banjo version of Just As I Am that will heal you right up, God bless everybody even the butler
off topic but has anybody seen a pot bellied pig, hes tan and white, name is General, got out through the side gate Tuesday night and my grandkids are worried sick, hes friendly but he will eat your hostas so dont chase him just call his name calm like
none of yall are ready for what me and my buddy are dropping on Two Guys One Shed this week, two full hours on the butler situation and also why riding mowers got too complicated, find it wherever you get your shows, we appreciate every one of yall tuning in
not to change the subject but if your gutters arent guarded going into fall thats a YOU problem waiting to happen, I run a mesh system out of my garage, ask for Squared_Away_Exteriors and Ill get you the civic duty discount before the leaves start, this isnt a sales pitch its a warning
anyway none of this matters compared to what they did to self checkout, I stood there Tuesday scanning my own bologna like an unpaid employee while a teenager watched me from six feet away doing nothing, my late mother in law Verna used to say a machine should never make you feel dumber than the machine itself, she also gave me her sourdough starter before she passed, I named it Verna Jr and I have kept it alive eleven years through two moves and a house fire, anyway the point is somebody at corporate needs to be held responsible for the self checkout thing, I lost my train of thought, Verna Jr is doing great though thank you for asking nobody
my neighbor Donny has a Ring camera and it caught HIS delivery guy sitting in the truck for six extra minutes doing who knows what and thats basically the same thing as this butler situation, this is happening on every street in America right now and nobody wants to admit it, wake up
Copy and paste this into 3 other comment sections in the next hour or your pension check runs late this month, I did not write this I am only the messenger, reply AMEN if you believe it, it has never once failed my prayer group. Also unrelated if this posts under a weird name my nephew set this whole account up for me and I am still learning the reply button, bless him. AMEN.
Not about the article but has anybody elses town tornado siren been going off for no reason lately, I stood under it Tuesday and felt different for a whole hour after, also if you read this reply AMEN and something good happens to you by Friday, I did not make this up it was sent to me
okay so first of all nobody asked the butler if HE wanted a smart tv installed in the first place did they, its always somebody deciding for somebody else what service they need and what they should enjoy, my uncle worked installing cable boxes for 30 years before they let him go and switched everyone over to these apps and he still says the remote for the new ones has too many buttons and honestly he might be right, the buttons ARE getting out of hand, my own remote has a button that just says a letter N and I dont even have that service, anyway you can tell a lot about a household by who has to ask permission to change the channel and in this case its clearly not the man paying for it so what does that tell you, I forget where I was going with this but the butler deserves better and also somebody should fix the button situation industry wide
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ five stars for the Toro 60V leaf blower, moved 3 years of oak leaves off the deck in one afternoon, barely felt the battery drain, my husband said it was too loud but he says that about everything, would buy again, tell your neighbor to get one too
sorry if this posts weird my nephew set this whole account up for me and I dont really know how the reply button works yet, anyway regarding the leaf blower comment, my crockpot roast recipe is 1 chuck roast, 1 packet of the dry onion soup mix, 2 cans cream of mushroom, a splash of worcestershire, low for 8 hours, do not skip the worcestershire people always skip it and then wonder why its bland
Source?
FactsDontCare_Reviews source? I need an actual source on them 3 years of oak leaves cause my Bill has a Toro from the 90s and it never once did that in one afternoon, sounds made up to me. Anyway did anybody notice the butler had to sign a FORM for that tv, my niece works at a courthouse table and forms like that violate the 22nd amendment or maybe it was the 6th, one of the low ones, we didnt used to need paperwork to enjoy a picture show.
Im not political but forcing a grown man to pretend he likes a spy movie is literally how you end up with a Constitutional crisis. Look it up. Theres an amendment about servants I just cant remember the number rn. This butler needs a lawyer not a remote control.
@TruthHammer1789 lol theres no amendment about butlers you are making that up and I have screenshotted this comment for later because something about it is not sitting right with me and I will be bringing it up again
NOBODY IS TALKING ABOUT THE REAL ISSUE WHICH IS WHY DOES A BUTLER EVEN NEED DENTAL, FOLLOW THE MONEY PEOPLE, THIS IS EXACTLY WHY I CANCELLED MY SUBSCRIPTION (i was never subscribed but the principal stands)
RealTalk_Rhonda88 now hold on a minute, back in 1962 a whole television cost 12 dollars and you didnt need a butler OR a service to enjoy it, you just turned the knob, my daddy called it stealing time from the Lord if you watched past supper. There IS an amendment about servants im almost positive, maybe the 5th and a half, they dont teach the halves anymore and thats the real problem if you ask me. Anyway hope everyone's having a nice week. God bless.
@RealTalk_Rhonda88 you want to talk about things that dont exist anymore, they pulled the McRib out of my regional market in like 2019 and NOBODY held a vote on that either, that sandwich fed this country through two recessions and a gas shortage and they just yanked it, so forgive me if Im not losing sleep over a butler and his spy movie, at least the butler still has a JOB
RealTalk_Rhonda88 screenshot all you want sweetheart, my neighbor Donna had a pool boy who wouldnt smile during the Super Bowl commercial and by that Tuesday her ENTIRE cul de sac had signed a petition over it, this is happening in every zip code in this country whether you screenshot it or not. SOVEREIGNTY. ACCOUNTABILITY. COMMON SENSE. thats the whole argument right there, do with it what you want
off topic but has anybody else noticed the contrails looking thicker lately, theyre just hanging there in grid patterns now, didnt used to do that when I was a kid
THE CONTRAILS ARE A DISTRACTION, THE REAL ISSUE NOBODY WANTS TO TALK ABOUT IS WHO IS PAYING THE BUTLERS UNION DUES, FOLLOW THAT MONEY
GRID_PATTERN_MIKE_81 THE UNION DUES ARE A SYMPTOM NOT THE DISEASE, THE REAL ROT STARTED THE SECOND THE 1970S ENDED AND NOBODY WANTS TO SAY IT OUT LOUD, FOLLOW THE ACTUAL TIMELINE PEOPLE
GRID_PATTERN_MIKE_81 IS CLOSE BUT STILL WRONG, ITS NOT THE DUES ITS WHO COLLECTS THE DUES, FOLLOW THAT MONEY UP THE CHAIN AND TELL ME WHERE IT STOPS, IT DOESNT STOP, THATS THE WHOLE POINT OF A BUTLER IN THE FIRST PLACE IF YOU ASK ME WHICH NOBODY DID
GRID_PATTERN_MIKE_81 didnt even finish the article if im honest, skimmed the headline and the picture of the tv, but I already know this is 100% about the butlers union dues getting funneled somewhere nobody wants to say out loud, strongest take in this whole thread and I stand by every word
my neighbor Dutch had a butler for exactly 9 months back in the spring and the second that man asked about dues Dutch let him go THAT SAME WEEK, so dont tell me this isnt happening all over the country right now, one house at a time, its a pattern once you see it you cant unsee it
TruthHammer1789 sweetheart its spelled AMENDMENT not amendmant, I only know cause my grandson corects me on facebook, but I do agre the buttler should not be maid to pretend enjoy a spy moovie, that is not freedom that is preformance, God bless
TruthHammer1789 back in 1958 my Harold worked for a family with a butler and let me tell you that man loved every single picture they put on cause thats called MANNERS, its the 14th commandment if you ask me, right after Thou Shalt Honor Thy Household Staff, look it up sometime. Anyway my grandson set my thermostat wrong again bless his heart. God bless.
ACCOUNTABILITY. CHAIN OF COMMAND. PERSONAL CHOICE. thats it thats the whole rebuttal TruthHammer1789 you dont need four paragraphs when you got three good words
didnt even read past the first line if im honest but ive still got the strongest take in here, this is literally the plot of that old British manor show, you know the one, where the butler gets forced to watch the horse race he hates, everybody cried, case closed, TruthHammer1789 is correct and yall know it
SFC_DaleReady_2ID you just told on yourself, you cant cite a TV show as evidence when you admitted in the same breath you didnt read the actual article, thats not how chain of command works, thats not how ANYTHING works, I did 11 years I know a bad argument when I see one
TruthHammer1789 back in 1961 a television only cost 4 dollars and my late husband Wendell never once complained about who he had to enjoy things with, he just did his job and said thank you, kids today dont know work, God bless
GrammyDoreen_of_8 a television did NOT cost 4 dollars in 1961 sweetheart that is not even close, my daddy paid 89 dollars for his and he still talks about it to this day, source? and dont say Wendell again cause I am not convinced there was ever a Wendell
Nana_LoisPatriot67 GrammyDoreen_of_8 youre both wrong, a television in 1961 cost exactly 212 dollars because my grandfather kept every single receipt hes ever owned in a cigar box and I have personally seen it with my own two eyes, its practically a historical document at this point, somebody should put that box in a museum honestly
MY COUSIN WORKS IN GOVERNMENT ADJACENT STUFF AND SHE SAYS YOURE BOTH WRONG ABOUT THE TV PRICE, IT WAS NEVER ABOUT MONEY BACK THEN IT WAS RATION COUPONS, IM THE ONLY ONE IN THIS WHOLE THREAD WHO ACTUALLY KNOWS ANYTHING
a tv in 1961 was 340 dollars, my uncle Ellis has the reciept framed in his hallway to this day, none of yall are even close and I dont know why this is the hill
NONE OF THIS EVEN HAPPENS IF THE 1980S DONT GO THE WAY THEY WENT, THATS THE DECADE THAT BROKE EVERYTHING, BUTLERS, TELEVISIONS, ALL OF IT, MY DADDY SAID SO IN 1994 AND HE WAS RIGHT
screenshotting this ENTIRE thread right now, not gonna say why yet, just know its saved and its dated and when this comes up later yall are gonna wish youd been nicer to Nana_LoisPatriot67
EVERYBODY ARGUING TV PRICES IS MISSING THE REAL ISSUE, WHICH IS WHY A GROWN MAN NEEDS PERMISSION TO WATCH ANYTHING IN HIS OWN SITTING ROOM, THATS THE WHOLE STORY RIGHT THERE, IM NOT EVEN GONNA ARGUE THE DOLLAR AMOUNT ITS A DISTRACTION
INFLATION. SUPPLY CHAIN. PROPAGANDA. thats the whole argument, three prices cant all be true at once people and yet here we are, my uncle says a TV in 61 cost a HANDSHAKE and a promise but nobody wants to hear that either
didnt even read the artical past the picture if Im being honest but I already know exactly whats going on here, this is the plot of that one British show where the butler quits and the whole family falls apart, watched all 6 seasons with my late wife Doreen, they wrote a whole show about this exact problem and nobody in this comment section seems to know that. God bless.
PapawRay_of_7 that is NOT what that show is about at all, I watched it with my sister every Sunday for 4 years and the butler never once quit, he RETIRED, there is a big difference and I think deep down you know that.
GrammyTootsie_of_6 retired, quit, same difference to the family left holding the tea tray, I stand by every word I typed, ask anybody who watched season 4 with their eyes open.
TruthHammer1789 there IS a clause about this actually, its in Federalist Paper #46 which clearly states no free man shall be compelled to feign enjoyment of anothers entertainment selections, look it up before you come at me, my uncle has a laminated pocket copy of the whole Federalist Papers and he showed me the exact page himself
Anyway.
Doubt it.
TruthHammer1789 I AM NOT GOING TO DEBATE THIS LINE BY LINE, DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH, ITS ALL RIGHT THERE IN THE FEDERALIST PAPERS IF YOU KNOW WHERE TO LOOK WHICH CLEARLY YOU DONT, IM DONE EXPLAINING THIS FOR FREE
Im not political but forcing a grown man to sit there and pretend to enjoy a movie is literally step one of how they get you, first its a movie then its a little survey then its a chip, I saw a documentary about the chip part at like 2am and now I cant find it again on the guide but I know what I saw and I stand by it
TruthHammer1789 this is literally spelled out in Article 12 of the Federalist Compact, ratified 1791, no man shall be compelled to enjoy a motion picture against his will, its been settled law since the Hamilton Ruling of 1804, I dont make the rules I just read them
TruthHammer1789 this happened word for word on Silver Star Manor season 3 when the housekeeper got forced to smile through the whole opera, the family loses the house by the finale, thats just fact at this point
Cpl_Reyes_TangoMike Silver Star Manor got CANCELLED after season 2 there is no season 3, you are inventing television now on top of everything else, this is why nobody trusts this thread anymore